Real Arguments

She Cheated On Me, Should I Help Her?

She Cheated On Me, Should I Help Her?

  This is like the story of Jean Valjean and Javier from Les Miserables. Javier, the villainous character, returns the kindness of Jean Valjean with only more treachery. Here we have the cheating woman and the nice guy who finishes last. He wants to know […]

Trash Is Overflowing: Is She Wrong To Be Mad?

Trash Is Overflowing: Is She Wrong To Be Mad?

  There is a part of me that sees things from this woman’s point of view, but then there is a part of me that wants to speak up in defense of the man. Do I have to pick a side? Or can I just […]

She’s Uncomfortable With His PDA

She’s Uncomfortable With His PDA

  This guy is immature and territorial and he acts as if they are in the beginning months of a relationship. You can spot couples like this at restaurants- they are the couples who sit side by side when every other couple sits across from […]

Is She Worried Over Nothing?

Is She Worried Over Nothing?

  So here’s what you’re not getting- your husband is well aware that the water line is damaged. Your husband was hoping to get this problem fixed before you found out. He knows that if you find out, then this will lead to a pointless […]

She’s Tired Of Being Mansplained To

She’s Tired Of Being Mansplained To

  I think this goes both ways. We are both condescending to each other sometimes- man and woman that is. Sometimes there is a legitimate reason for having to explain things to each other. For example, how a catalytic converter works, the confusing ending to […]

Baiting A Pregnant Woman?

Baiting A Pregnant Woman?

  I think there is some important information missing to fully understand what is going on here, but 3 things stuck out 1) poor communication 2) refusing to go to counseling 3) baiting and blaming a pregnant woman. Let’s look at these one at a […]

He says no sex until you meditate?

He says no sex until you meditate?

  So this is definitely weird. It’s hard to tell exactly what’s happening here, but it sounds like a religion or a cult? Who does this guy think he is? The Dalai Lama’s evil twin? Let’s assume he’s vegan too. So to characterize this guy, […]